I have been thinking of all the Easters past
of all the chocolate eggs and bunnies which I never had a chance to give you. You
are too old for these now but there is something I can send you which
no one else can (when I go no one else will remember.) I have written down memories
of your mother as a small girl trivial perhaps but the kind of thing a woman
ponders over in the course of her life.March 3, 1928 found
us in an apartment at the Hotel Berkely in Paris, where we had spent most of the winter.
Ben had been told that a move to Latin America was imminent so it seemed foolish to renew
the lease on our delightful brownstone row house in the rue Forteing. All our furniture
had been packed ready to leave for the New World at any moment. I do not remember
why your grandfather had the day off but I was happy to have him near as I felt
particularly clumsy, tired and melancholy that day. After lunch he suggested a drive in
the country so we set out in our Buick touring car open to the elements
and made for the Forest of Fontainebleau where we had spent such happy hours during
the summer. We left the car in a clearing and walked under the great trees already
showing signs of approaching spring. As the sun began to set we went back to an old inn
where we were given the French version of English tea. The tea itself was lamentable, but
the "English Plum Cake" which accompanied was delicious and we ate with
the healthy appetite of youth. (It was really Dundee cake which derives its
pleasant flavor from the cherries and sullanas and whiskey which go into its making).
We arrived home late and were glad to get to bed I dont
recollect having supper. At two in the morning I woke with stomach pains and I thought
unhappily of the cake. But in a minute or two I realized that this was not brought on by
dietary indiscretion, but the "Moment of Truth". I woke Ben we hurriedly
put on some garments picked up my suitcase. I told the hotel porter to call a taxi
to take us to the American Hospital at Neuilly. When the sun rose that morning Kate had
made her appearance a fine child slightly over 7 pounds with rosy skin and
black hair.
We stayed 10 days in the hospital the usual thing at that time
then made a triumphant return to the hotel where the baby was greeted with
enthusiasm by all the staff who promptly named here Mademoiselle Berkely. There
were always admirers to watch the elegant English pram being wheeled out by pretty Mlle.
the Swiss nanny. The two charges comfortably settled among embroidered pillows and
covered with a lap robe of velvet and cat fur (yes, beautiful tom cat skin skillfully put
together). Mlle. would taken them to the Champs Elysses for the morning, where Benny
played whilst Katie napped. By todays standards their clothes must have been
over-elaborate and impractical but they were very beautiful.
Katie from the very start was "different". The
pastel blues and pinks of babyhood were not becoming to her. But, by great good luck
someone had given her a very tailored "highwaymans" coat of a clear
turquoise blue wool crepe. It had a cape bordered with a pleated frill and it was lined
with rich silk from Japan. She looked charming in this garment - which bore the label of
Paquin - then second only to the great house of Worth - as a source of haute couture.
We spent that spring and summer agreeably enough waiting for orders to
go to Cuba - which did not come until the Autumn - when we sailed for the U.S. for a
two-weeks leave before going on to Havana - where our relatives the Porbiondos had already
found us a home.
But - Fate decreed otherwise. State Dept. politics sent us instead to
Panama. At first this seemed a cruel. blow - but, it turned out - to be a blessing - for
we enjoyed Panama in the full. The children were well and happy - the work was interesting
- what more could one want?
In 1930 we again got our moving orders - this time to Bogotá, Columbia.
Ben had to proceed immediately -but I was forbidden by my doctor to go with him as I was 6
months pregnant and the altitude of Bogotá is bad for mothers to be. Rather than stay
alone in Panama we decided that I should go to England and visit my family - and that the
baby should be born there - after which I would join Ben in his Andean aerie.
In early August - our household effects having been packed - he started
off on this trip to Bogotá. Mile., the children and I set off for Bristol England in a
small English ship which carried bananas and passengers. (We soon discovered that the
bananas out-ranked the passengers)
The only break in a 21 day journey was at Puerto Limon - C.R. an
intolerably hot town - where we spent 24 hours loading fruit. Most of the passengers
escaped the heat by going to the Capital, San Jose, for the night - but this was not
feasible for us. The rest of the journey to England was quite dull except for one incident
- one evening after Mile. and I had seen the children fed, bathed and tucked into bed, we
had settled down ourselves to an excellent dinner of roast duckling and a salad of fresh
tangerines and grapefruit. (It is strange how these details live in ones mind after
all these years). We were surprised to see our room steward come into the dining salon and
tip toe to our table. "Madam - I think you and the young lady should go at once to
the cabin" he whispered and would not give any further details. Alarmed, we left our
nice dinner and dashed to the cabin to be greeted by the sight of Benny and Kate doing a
kind of war dance around the room. They were stark naked - but painted over in red spots
and dashes which they had achieved by using up a large bottle of iodine they had found in
the medicine cupboard. They looked so startled when we appeared that it was difficult to
know what to say.
Once settled in Bogotá the three children led a sensible if dull life.
We had a large house with a nice garden in one of Bogotás suburbs. The house had
once been a club for officers in the Columbian Army and was showy rather than comfortable.
It was much too big for us - but we had been lucky to find a house at all - and the empty
rooms were a fine playground for the children. We bought them a goat to play with and this
animal was stabled in a patio in which there were several peach trees - laden with unripe
fruit. In spite of our admonitions, the children ate heartily of this fruit and came down
with amoebic dysentery. The finest pediatrician in town also happened to be the minister
from Costa Rica - so we at once called in our colleague for advice. He had been trained
either in England or the U.S. I forget which and was considered very advanced in his
methods. He put the children on a regimen of rest - and meals which centered around
applesauce - puree of spinach - rice and all the liquid they could drink - were it
"cambrio tea" - fruit juice - bouillon - or plain boiled water. This worked and
in a short time our invalids were restored to full health - though Katie seemed to be
extremely prone to colds - which would settle in her lungs and exhaust her with the
coughing.
When we left Bogotá for Montevideo in 1932 she was just recovering from
such a cold. The 3 day journey to the west (by train and automobile) over chill mountain
passes and through torrid valleys did not help this condition and she was running a very
high fever before we reached Buena Ventura - the port at which we boarded the Grace line
for Valparaiso. She was so ill that we called in the ships doctor - a very young man
who had the courage to tell us that she was so ill that there was little he could do
except try to lower the fever. He said that in Guayaquil Ecuador there was a very good
American doctor and his advice to us was to get off the ship in Guayaquil and stay there
until the next ship Valparaiso bound passed in two weeks time. This would give Dr. X (I
forget his name) time to put Kate back on her feet and he would telegraph for the doctor
to meet the ship in Guayaquil.
The hours flew by as we made the arrangement for our party to get off
the ship - whilst the luggage - except for what was strictly necessary went on its way to
Montevideo (There were 12 in our party - not to mention Jimmy the Airedale). We arrived in
Guayaquil very early in the morning and the doctor arrived on the same little boat as the
sanitary authorities. He saw Katie and at once confirmed our worst fears -
"Mastoid," he said, "she should be operated on as soon as possible."
-- We and Katie were allowed off the ship at once. The others followed later. We went
straight to Dr. Xs house next door to which he was building his clinic. A small
surgery and 4 bed ward had just been completed. Everything was starkly simple - but
spotlessly clean. Two Ecuadorean nurses were in attendance. Dr. X himself was a person of
some note. Me had been on the staff of Goelhale during the building of the Canal and had
stayed on - judging that his skill was more needed in Latin America than in the U.S. He
had been most successful.
Ben and I lived through two harrowing hours as the doctor leaned over
the sleeping child. Mastoid in those days was an extremely serious illness and many
children died from it. But the doctor worked on quite calmly and we began to feel
reassured. Three hours later Katie came to and she seemed already better in spite of the
after effects of the anesthetic. By the next morning the temperature was almost normal -
the grey waxy look had gone from her face and she began to take interest in food. We had
to wait 10 more days for another Latin bound ship to put in port - so, as the child was
doing so well the doctor and his wife suggested we go up to Quito for 3 days. A suggestion
we followed though not before arranging for Benny and the 3 Sanchez children, Beatriz,
Samuel and Cecilia all to have their tonsils removed, a necessary operation in each case.
In this way we could take advantage of good surgery - good care and playmates for Katie
who was getting restive. Also, it was "cheaper by the dozen". Katie had one
glorious day of lording it over the other children, but after that it settled down to a
normal condition and the 4 small patients had a jolly time together - overall in fine
health when we continued our trip to Chile.
Montevideo proved a strange place - modern - clean and very dull for
those of us who preferred cultural facilities to beaches and golf courses. For the
children it was a good place. The house was comfortable and we lived two blocks from one
of the best beaches. It was also within walking distance of the Colegio Ingles - to which
in due course, Benny and Katie were sent.